Resources
A library for the moments in between.
These resources are here to offer practical ideas, language, and support as your family finds its footing.
Listen and watch
Conversations to return to when you need them.
Thoughtful guidance on helping children and teens feel safe, seen, and supported through family change.
YouTubeThe Impact of Parental Betrayal on Adolescents with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗YouTubeGuiding Our Kids Through Betrayal: Age-Appropriate Honesty and Family Repair with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗YouTubeSupporting Children and Teens Through Betrayal Trauma with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗Apple PodcastsParenting Your Teen When Navigating Betrayal: Creating Safety, Connection and Repair with Ellia MarkhamOpen episode ↗
Explore at your own pace
Tools for learning, reflection, and conversation.
01U.S. teen mental health statistics: current national data→02Culture Reframed Parents Program (free)↗03Sexpectations, the Book↗04Betrayal Support Digital Magazine↗05Empathetic Listening and Active Listening↗06Essentials of Therapeutic Parenting Webinar Series↗07Activities and games to support and connect with tweens and teens↗08How to Talk to Your Family About Infidelity↗09Parental Controls For Every Digital Device↗10Raise app↗11Infidelity and the Kids: 10 Research-Based Facts↗12Step-by-step guides for all your digital situations (free)↗13A caregiver’s survival guide after discovering a problematic sexual behavior has occurred (free)↗14Fight the New Drug↗15Build a strong foundation for authentic and open communication with your children after a family disclosure↗16How a Parent’s Affair Can Lead to Emotionally Neglected Kids↗17Free guide: How to talk to your kids about infidelity↗