Resources
A library for the moments in between.
These resources are here to offer practical ideas, language, and support as your family finds its footing.

Listen and watch
Conversations to return to when you need them.
Thoughtful guidance on helping children and teens feel safe, seen, and supported through family change.
YouTubeThe Impact of Parental Betrayal on Adolescents with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗YouTubeGuiding Our Kids Through Betrayal: Age-Appropriate Honesty and Family Repair with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗YouTubeSupporting Children and Teens Through Betrayal Trauma with Ellia MarcumOpen episode ↗Apple PodcastsParenting Your Teen When Navigating Betrayal: Creating Safety, Connection and Repair with Ellia MarkhamOpen episode ↗
Explore at your own pace
Tools for learning, reflection, and conversation.
01Culture Reframed Parents Program (free)↗02Sexpectations, the Book↗03Betrayal Support Digital Magazine↗04Empathetic Listening and Active Listening↗05Essentials of Therapeutic Parenting Webinar Series↗06Activities and games to support and connect with tweens and teens↗07How to Talk to Your Family About Infidelity↗08Parental Controls For Every Digital Device↗09Raise app↗10Infidelity and the Kids: 10 Research-Based Facts↗11Step-by-step guides for all your digital situations (free)↗12A caregiver’s survival guide after discovering a problematic sexual behavior has occurred (free)↗13Fight the New Drug↗14Build a strong foundation for authentic and open communication with your children after a family disclosure↗15How a Parent’s Affair Can Lead to Emotionally Neglected Kids↗16Free guide: How to talk to your kids about infidelity↗
